How does one succeed in life?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Do you want to have an XXX chat?

Do not set goals—set systems.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

What do you think of the Black history lessons in the PBS documentary about jazz pianist-singer Hazel Scott?

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Why does my cat get anxious during loud noises like thunderstorms or firework displays? Is this a common behavior for cats, and is there a way to help them cope with it?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Ask yourself:

What qualities do single women typically look for in a man? Is it a common preference for women to want a man who earns more than they do?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Procrastinates a lot.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

If you could go back and rewrite the Legend of Korra, what would you change, and why?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Why do some films seem to date/age so badly?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Does not procrastinate.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

How can Democrats not feel hypocritical when they urge Trump not to be vengeful should be become president when the Democrats are trying to put Trump into prison?

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

How come Jesus died on Friday and rose on Sunday? That's not 3 days and three nights.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

That's it for today.

What do you think about the NFA full auto band? Weapons built before 1986 can be transferred and registered? But we can't have an 87? But older weapons tend to be far more powerful. I think we should drop it. Input?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Are women as visual as men are?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

What I need from you?

How do women feel when they are in love?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

What is your twin flame story?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Here’s why exercise is so important if you’re a cancer survivor - The Washington Post

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Have you ever accidentally seen your mother-in-law doing something that was private to her?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Making more friends is a goal.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.